No biggie - I know same sex couples are the exception and not the general rule.
The larger issue is that as I continue to grapple with this, family is perplexed why I haven't gone ahead with the D, friends are confounded why I haven't scheduled the D as well, etc... None of their business, it will progress or not as it should. I have stopped talking about it for now. Lets see what the W decides to do.
Last night she texted and asked "How was the kids day - I know it was probably rough." I replied - The kids had a great day, they had a blast at camp. They are at a play date right now, can they call you at 8?
She said - sure. When my daughter did call at 8PM, it was brief as she wanted to continue playing and my son didn't want to talk to her at all as he was playing on the trampoline.
So I feel really good about keeping them at the same camp, they both loved it and said it was much better this year than last. I don't feel bad like I did yesterday when I second guessed myself about keeping them in the same camp. W had said "Why did you enroll them there, they don't want to go!"
And they were invited to play date for friends in the neighborhood. Another good.
