Not much has changed. found out W has told some mutual friends that she filed for D. she told them "it's really no one's fault" I knew she would say something like that. The guy is one of my best friends and I kind of told him what was going on and he was in complete shock.
We are just kind of in limbo right now, our temp order court hearing is July 15th so things have definitely been awkward around the house. I am slowly detaching and I have definitely been GAL. My W went out last night and I honestly could give a s*it where she was or what she was doing. She always tells me her plans and I just say "OK"
She had a convo with me the other night about me being so vague about what I was doing when D2 and I were out. She also said it was weird how I have been doing so much other stuff on my own. I told her I was just taking care of myself. She said it frustrated her I was so vague about things and I politely told her she gave up the right to know what I was doing. She did not like that statement. I think she thought I meant information about our D2 but I think she is just baiting me. Things started escalating and I told her I needed a couple minutes to calm down and she got even more mad and said she didn't want to wait to talk and I calmly told her I have the right to step away and calm down if I think that is what I need. This was first time in a long time I didn't let her bait me into an argument.
Me: 32 Her: 29 M: 5 T: 11 D2 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: 2/13/15 (I found out, she didn't tell me) W filed for D after I confronted OM 5-27-15 Papers served 6-3-15 Temporary Order 7-15-15 W Moved out 7-17-15