Totally do things now to protect yourself and your family. Some L's will do a free phone consultation and you can ask them questions for state specific responses. Keep an eye on joint accounts for suspicious withdrawals, etc.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
