Hey RD, just stopping in to say hello. I feel for your XW, I really do. She's miserable, obviously.
I have a question, which you certainly don't have to answer, it's really personal. Going way back to the time your W said she no longer wanted to have sex, did she present this solely as a menopausal/physical issue. Or did she spell out something else? Did you (plural usage, otherwise known as y'all) try to work on things from a medical perspective, or did you simply tell her that wasn't going to work for you? It wouldn't work for me, either, btw, but I'm just curious what went down at the time. And have you talked about that again after she became a WAW? Again, I realize that's really personal and if you don't want to answer, that's fine.
