Hi wonka, so glad you are here. Slightly edited just in case.

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I just wanted to drop you a note out of courtesy and to keep you up to date with what is going on. I met with my Lawyer yesterday and have now instructed [censored]to act on my behalf so that we can try to move forward to agree our separation terms. Unfortunately the mediator sessions didn’t work and I feel that I have no alternative but to move on to the next step.

Can you let me know if you have now instructed your lawyer to act on your behalf or are you still in the process of this?

I am really sorry this is now where we are, but I am still hopeful that we can work through this together as amicably as possible in order to minimise the disruption and impact on S9.

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.