Also, H keeps saying he is trying to see if we can get past our issues/ the past and then brings up stuff like me saying I am afraid to be too vulnerable right now. This is even though I have shared stuff with him that I have held back for years. He is certainly taking in my every word and action and analyzing it and it seems he is working hard to prove my changes wrong and convince himself it won't work even though I know he is seeing positive changes. He has brought up vulnerability multiple times. What are thoughts on sharing feelings right now? Seems like it should be a no if he is not willing himself.
He also keeps saying that he won't stop having emotional connections with others, both male and female, to discuss our issues and what he has going on in his life. He just keeps reiterating that he doesn't want to share those thoughts with me and needs an outlet. I validated and said that I understand why he does not want to share with me but want to become that person he can do that with in the future.
Last edited by BW05; 06/16/1501:40 PM.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
