Ok, tried to be friendlier and make more small talk this morning while keeping it about household stuff. Still getting the angry teenager additude. Guess now he is tantruming because I told him I think he should move out. I have been for the most part more than patient and calm given what has been transpiring and could have dealt with his A in a much different way.
I have made it clear that I am unhappy with his choice, but willing to TRY and work through his A and have been keeping the light on. I have had a few minor meltdowns, but still I am proud of how I have handled myself. One of my issues in past has been pent up anger leading to name calling. H said he lost respect for me due to this. Since BD I have done 180 by keeping anger and check and have not name called once.
Trying to break the ice a bit as we will have a lot of together time this weekend, including a 5 hr drive from airport.
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
