The more you try to convince of anything, the more determined she will be to run and do the things that you are trying to convince her not to do. Let her be! Keep the focus on you and your son. You are the adult now and need to be strong and there for your son.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
