That lady singing - is she fat?

[NDY]

My WAS makes it very hard to cherish our memories when she insists on rewriting history and denying them, flaunting OM in my face, in my bed.

Yes. This. This is where the detaching is difficult. Sure, I get why we need to do it and understand the necessity. But the loving unconditionally and being the lighthouse is difficult when this is happening. The longer this goes on the more I think it's a deliberate attempt to really punish me, not about a new life for her. But I'm most likely way off the mark with that one.