Lou- Have to say that I have so much admiration for you. All along this journey you have been determined and graceful. Even now you are navigating this situation with a calm and measured approach to things.

I am glad you are doing what is best for you and keeping boundaries with H. It sure sounds like he is starting to reflect on things but then again who knows what is in their head. Reread DBusting and stay the course.

Sending you good vibes.


M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters
BD: 5/14
Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW
D Final 9/17

“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.”
― Maya Angelou