I took off from work about an hour early because I wanted to get this over with. Plus, I had to pick up two twelve packs for beer club tomorrow at work. When I got home, MIL was still there with the kids. Really? I couldn't get some time to myself on today of all days. But seriously, it was good to see the kids. Plus, I was able to show D4 the flowers I picked up at lunch for the butterfly garden.
Once I got settled, I planted myself on the patio sans shirt with a scotch in hand. I figured, why not get served on my terms? Six o clock came and went. Nothing. So I went to get some wings and a beer around the corner. Of course I put my shirt on first.
While I was enjoying my wings, STBX sends me a TM. "I really wanted to talk to you this afternoon." I didn't reply. She calls fifteen minutes later. I missed her call. I figured it was a good time to say goodnight to the kiddos, so I called her back.
I FaceTimed with the kids for a bit. While chatting, D4 asked where I was a bunch of times. I just said I was outside at dinner. STBX said it looked really pretty there. I was my normal happy self on the call. STBX made it a point to say that I looked really good. She also said she was having a hard time with every thing today. She asked me how I was doing and I said I was doing good.
At the end of the call, STBX asked if she could ask me a question. I said sure. She asked if someone came by at 6. I said no and I kind of laughed and said "was I supposed to be there?" Oops, didn't get the memo. We said our goodbyes. Since then, STBX called me two more times. Goodness, leave me alone with my scotch!
The good news is that I have great GAL plans scheduled for tomorrow night with my two best friends. What will be, will be. Looks like I'll get served another day.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15