I guess the reason why is because I told her when I was moving out she needed my help, to ask me. She did ask and we both never communicated much after that. I did do what she asked, but she felt I didn't communicate with her and honestly with everything going on, I may not have.
So she does say she's felt like she's just stuck with things (most rightfully so), but I still need to pick up some of my things there, throw away things I don't want and that will also help her from having to do it. It's really kinda my mess anyway.
The more I think of it, the more I will use action and ask when a good time would be for me to do those things, rather than ask what she would want.
I have to do it anyway.
M-33 W-33 S-11, S-8 M-11, T-14 BD - 12/26, Divorce Filing and admits to affair (her) 4/18 I moved out 5/23