I agree with RD. I honestly don't think they even see the ramifications for their actions and how it might hurt the LBS. They are too focused on themselves and their own needs at this time. I can clearly see it in my H. He swears he is not hurting or angry, but his actions and words tell the truth. He flat out said he is tired of not making his needs a priority.
At some point this is likely to change once they are out of fog and have addressed their internal issues. For now, as hard as it is, you can't take it personally. I know that is easier said than done.
BW
Me: 42 H: 40 M: 12 H moved out - 8/2015 I filed - 8/2015
