Originally Posted By: Ripken8
I have been wondering for weeks if she was having a hard time with things or missed me or still cared about me, etc. While I still have no idea, I have always believed that when someone gets so upset without being provoked, they still must have feelings or care. It's hard to be hurt by someone you are indifferent towards.
Hi Ripken,

That is a great point you mentioned above, especially the part I placed in bold.

I really feel we are in the same sitch - wanting to do the right thing yet walking a tight rope so it doens't seem like we are trying to "fix" our W or manipulate her.

I'm not sure what to advise right now, but please don't give up.

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15