I think that's pretty successful. Sounds like a couple of 180's in there. I'm on my phone so can't quote properly but one thing I've learned is not to expect a 'type' of reaction when deploying DB techniques. You seem surprised at how she reacted to certain things. Don't be, the only certainty here is uncertainty.

Well done you.

Have you read the books?

Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.