Advice Welcome, separating and W moving out soon..

[jedi]

So it's been almost 2 weeks now since I've posted, and to be quite honest there has been really nothing to report. I've been keeping busy with GAL activities and am still reading up on here fairly frequently but not posting at all.

Very little contact with W, which is expected. I am going to schedule a DB session this week to see if there's anything he thinks I should be doing differently.

Had my second IC session last week and didn't get much from it again, other than to hear that I seem to be processing all of this in a healthy manner.

Reflected a bit on my timeline over the weekend. 10 weeks since she first left, 3 since she officially moved out. It feels so much longer than this....

I feel like I'm now in this holding pattern, working on ME while waiting for W to file for D. Or maybe she doesn't, who knows.

I do know that doesn't really change anything for me. Day by day I'm starting to really feel that I'll be OK with my life without W in it.