Mike, What was your relationship like before this, while you were dating, married before your child, then after the birth of your child? How much time did you spend just the two of you? Did you go out together without your child?
WAW spouses tend to rewrite history. While I'm sure that there are people that get married without being in love, I'm figuring that she WAS in love with you when you got married. Sometime after that, you probably stopped doing the things together that kept you close, and her love for you faded.
How did you deal with disagreements? Were you guilty of having angry outbursts? Did you speak to your wife disrespectfully at times (poking fun at her, being sarcastic, not considering her point of view, etc)?
When you are looking at what a 180 should be for you, these are some of the points that you should consider.
