For me, I believe it means having no contact, not interacting with her at all, living my life and eventually (when I feel I'm ready) allow myself to possibly date or meet others who could appreciate me.
Only leads to this
Originally Posted By: Ripken8
let animosity grow due to lack of contact and potentially just resent each other
If you have expectations on your W.
Aren't you already basically doing the top quote? So I'm having trouble seeing what would be different.