That lady singing - is she fat?

[Pyrite]

Hugs, Py.

I wish they were real (((Smothy))). I've had a shitty day. It all came back to hit me today. After last week being so remote, objective. Three times in a row colleagues started with "??What happened ?? L??". I haven't been at work since the L letter was floating around you see. Welcome back to Earth Py

The night came good though. I picked up my girls for the week. d4 has evolved a month in the last week!!


It hurts to hear and know that we are no longer the priority to our Spouse. My H is taking no responsibility for his EAs, say they are just friends etc did not betrayed me as in his words 'I didn't f%*# her!

My W did exactly the same thing. Then I repeat EA. And she denies. Then she admits that, then goes back to no A at all. No cheating he is just supportive - blah, blah. Now it is redundant. They will be living together within the next few months. Went out again this weekend with MIL, kids, OM.

Taking ownership of what they done means they have to have a good look at themselves in the mirror. Our spouses are not ready for that yet.

I dont think she will EVER see it this way. Even now she reverts to denying that she ended the M. Huh? By the time she is even clear of Mr Ukraine it isn't going to matter anyway. I will be entrenched single Dad, possibly primary carer, hopefully seeing someone by then. BiologicallyI could even be a father again by that stage.

In short they may NEVER see it this way. Why is that a problem? What satisfaction will it give you when/if they do? At least for me that wouldn't be enough to turn it around. I think I at least just wasn't to be right on this. And that really isn't a good enough reason to beat myself up about now, because I am NOT getting that satisfaction. Come on Py-man, get it together. Best Py-dad, Best Py-Py, Best Py-friend, best Py-partner.