Ripken - WW filed for Divorce and I moved Out #5

[Ripken8]

Thanks for the support guys, it's hitting me harder than I thought. Didn't help that that's about all I dreamt about was ww. To Sandi, Wonka, anyone: how do you stay as the lighthouse when her actions (and words) show she is done. Am I mind reading too much?

Doesn't seem like it - filed for divorce and moving forward, chooses to have 3rd parties (lawyers, real estate agents) tell me things because "it's easier", still in relationship with om and he posts "love you babe" on her FB, she pushes to sell the house and have on the market, she is pushing to tell the kids I'm not moving back and divorce is immanent and wants to do so today.

What am I missing? Do I finally accept it's over and begin the process of moving past her?