Rip, I'm sorry, brother. This is some brutal stuff to deal with. I know that reality is settling in for some of us and it's a harsh reality. However, it won't be that way forever. You are the better choice, if not for your W than for someone else much more deserving of the great man you are and are becoming. Maybe view this as an opportunity to find fufillment in ways you could never find before in your previous MR. At least, that's what we all deserve, whether it's with your W or with someone else. Stay strong, Rip. You've come so far.
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15