S is at school during the day. He needs a routine due to his condition. So, he knows what time to have a bath, what time to go to bed etc. If he doesn't have that routine, he'll go into meltdown and start headbutting walls etc. It's very difficult.
Yes, I am way to emotional just now. Like a sword, she holds the 'taking the kids away' over my head and that I fear. I know she is planning on going away in August to see her brother. Maybe that's when I need to go 'meh' and let her go so she sees how difficult this is going to be on her own.
I am fitter than I've been for a long time and I am spending every spare minute I can with the kids. I've never been a control freak etc. and have always let her do whatever she wanted (although she said that at one point). She now has control of finance, so I don't know what else I can do.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
