That lady singing - is she fat?

[Pyrite]

well actually I didn't criticise her perpetually, but enough to be unfair.

I am not getting anything out of criticising her now, nor am I focused on that. I am just saying it hurts to have your W tell you that she is in love with OM and having sex with him.

Maybe I am asserting that her behaviour of late IS selfish etc. Still waiting for response from her L, but it is very likely that court will form the same opinion. We can add qualifiers all day but in the end, the ruling will come down the same. Who called "no marriage"? Who refused too try? Who had EA/PA? Who wants to move whole family? Who is going to benefit from that?

Yes we absolutely need to do the best we can to be the best people we can and provide the best future we can for our kids and enjoy life to the fullest. But this can be done without absolving STBX of any responsibility.