Bob. Thanks! Yes, she does seem like a stranger. The person I knew doesn't seem to be there for me. Everyone else (her friends, family, om) that appears to be the case, but not with me.
I miss her, but a lot of days it's easier not having contact. I just don't know of that's what I want for the rest of my life. But it's hard to have interaction with her when she's in love with om.
Everyone says look at her actions. All her actions show she's done and wants out. Not sure there's anything else i can do. Moving on, going dark and no contact just seem to make her happier with her decision and feel more justified.
Really don't see it having any positive impact on us and she seems to be just fine.
Unfortunately, there's nothing any of us can do to SHOW our Ws that we are the better choice. All we can do is BE the better choice and hope that one day, they will "wake up" and realize it.
Eventually, we will all have to decide when we stop waiting for that day to come. That's the day the rope gets truly dropped.
