Originally Posted By: Ripken8
I've changed and getting better and she has been colder, more hurtful and distant than anyone I could have ever imagined,
Hey Rip,

Thanks for checking on me. Oh no, it sounds like you had a really rough day to say the least. I can relate to the quote above as my W is the same way.

Does she seem like a stranger to you? Right now, I feel you are doing the right things. Since you can't control her, please keep working on yourself and try (I know it's hard!) to stay focused and positive.

Try to have a good evening buddy.

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15