Thank you Bob. I get it about the realtor situation. I don't disagree with Wonka. My W and I are both real estate investors, and I could get anyone to do this - we both know a bunch of realtors. But I don't think it's such a big deal to let my WW do it, really. I'm not punishing her, and I don't need her. But it would be the most efficient way to move forward, and apparently, time is of the essence.
She came home tonight, crying... hugged and kissed me, said, "I'm sorry I hurt you, babe. I just can't help it." Then went to pour a glass of wine and watch a show with me on the TV. After it ended, she talked about the course she signed up for to become a physical trainer, about her business, about her upcoming move, her motivations for everything. I bit my tongue whenever I wanted to make a point, and just VALIDATED. It's been peaceful. I think we'll go to bed soon, and we'll see what tomorrow brings.
I know my wife is in there somewhere. And I hope that someday, I get the chance to find her again.
Me: 46 Her: 41 M: 5.5 yrs / S: 20, 18 3/26 W and I meet OW BD: 5/2/2015, she takes off ring W goes to stay with OW 6/26 NC: 9/5 Both moved out: 10/16 I take off my ring and feel... healed: 10/19
