Originally Posted By: mahhhty
I was thinking about me during this process. I lost three close relatives/family friends, got divorced, started a business, gained a lot of emotional intelligence, new found thirst for life, etc etc etc. During this she has not once asked me a question about me. How are you? or anything close. I think that is sad, but it is only fuel to help me detach and create a business relationship with her.

Hello Mahhhty,

Wow...you sure were busy, weren't you? Whew.

Your quote above almost makes me want to cry because we all love you so much--you are such a caring guy! I can't count the number of times you have helped me and others. For your XW to not ask even once how you are doing is so cold.

I love the way you turned it into a positive: "but it is only fuel to help me detach" Good for you!

Don't ever stop being you. Something good is going to happen for you soon. I just have this feeling.

You are hanging tough, my friend.

Bob


Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS)
M:14 yrs
T:15 yrs
No children together--3 each from previous marriages
Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14
Divorce Final: 10/21/15