I have "bad" thoughts every minute. Rather than trying to stop them, I find it is more productive to let them pass and concentrate on what you really should be appreciating. It might seem really dumb, but step by step, it works.
Hello Pyrite,
I don't think it's dumb at all. You are grieving and you have to let those feelings come and pass. It's all part of a healing process.
BTW, I think you are doing such a good job fighting for your girls. Keep it up!
Take care my friend.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
