Ok, not long home and WW has been here. She dropped of a school uniform for S9 even thought I explicitly said I don't need one. I didn't know she was coming.
I won't see the L till tomorrow and she needs access to her stuff but when I was away I didn't turn up unannounced. I had to ring my own door bell. Man I was a wimp back then.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
The controlling and manipulation script is on pages 45-48 of the WW/WAS handbook!
Is there a website dedicated to showing them how to do this in the most hurtful way possible? Is it planted in their brains when they are born with a dedicated time to go off?
I have also been painted as the 'bad guy' to SIL (W's admission when she went off on one the other day) with the words 'no wonder SIL is being nasty about you. I told her you wanted to get your own bank account and she thought that was awful'. Nonsense really.
Glad S is back. Has she calmed down? Did you need camera?
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
The controlling and manipulation script is on pages 45-48 of the WW/WAS handbook!
Is there a website dedicated to showing them how to do this in the most hurtful way possible? Is it planted in their brains when they are born with a dedicated time to go off?
I have also been painted as the 'bad guy' to SIL (W's admission when she went off on one the other day) with the words 'no wonder SIL is being nasty about you. I told her you wanted to get your own bank account and she thought that was awful'. Nonsense really.
Glad S is back. Has she calmed down? Did you need camera?
Fortunately I wasn't here. No doubt engineered by her so it panned out that way. I have no idea if she has calmed down or not. I get the sense that the language in her text messages have softened ever so slightly. I'm not sure, but I think she may realise she's over stepped the mark with this one. I think my reaction to this may have scared her a little. Who knows all i know is I'm Clint.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
See, you are getting stronger by the day. Way to go my friend!
I agree with your statement: "Fortunately I wasn't here. No doubt engineered by her so it panned out that way."
You are in my thought and prayers. Thank you for checking in on me!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Rough position NDY - I was urged by L to get that "letter of notice" out ASAP, exactly for the reason that if she did a runner with the girls i would have to claw my way back. Having been "notified" if she does this is considered hostile from the beginning.
You still can (at least here) get your boy back into his home, just more screwing around. Hopefully L will set your mind at ease that you have equal rights (not just crumbs). 2. In the long run she has to prove anything she says. 3.You are the one offering stability, WW is offering the new life of a WW.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
S is fantastic. NC since yesterday when she dropped stuff off at the house and left a note. There isn't any urgency in contacting her at the moment so I'm leaving sleeping dogs lie. It won't be long before the next round starts that's for sure.
Weekend was a blast. Out Friday. Got up early on Saturday and scrubbed the house and there was not a bit of dirty laundry in the place. Went to the and replenished for the coming week (remember WW took S9's food with her) so it felt great knowing she would be back in the house on Saturday night when I wasn't there and the place was in tip top order.
Sunday was great. S9 all day. Fishing then dinner then a movie. He didn't get home till 11pm (oops). WW had been in the house and dropped stuff off for S9 even though I didn't ask nor needed it (I told her this when I replied to her text). Noticed she had taken a couple of picture of her and her dad when they were young from the living room.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Good. Glad to hear S is bearing up. Shame about taking the pictures. They're your memories as well aren't they. 2300 on a school night? Better not tell your W that otherwise she'll say that's proof you're an irresponsible father!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Good. Glad to hear S is bearing up. Shame about taking the pictures. They're your memories as well aren't they. 2300 on a school night? Better not tell your W that otherwise she'll say that's proof you're an irresponsible father!
Nah, they were her pictures of her and her dad. They mean a lot to her and if I'm honest I'm surprised she left them behind.
Yea, I'm also expecting social services at the door any minute now for being such an irresponsible father. Imagine having all that fun with your own child. Just not on;-)
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
