She is a few feet away from me right now, finishing the laundry I refused to touch Friday night. I cannot stand this woman who is here. She's a stranger. I can't imagine us ever getting back together again - unless the real W returns. But she seems lost and gone for good. How is this possible?
Hello Diff,
I hope you're logged off now enjoying that glass of wine.
Although my W is 3 1/2 hrs away with her Mom, I ask the same question all the time...How is this possible? Also, what really happened? I think for now, you want to focus on the house issue.
It's hard for me to ever disagree with Wonka. I liked what she wrote: "If I were you, I'd get someone else to represent me as a realtor. Fire W as your "realtor." I wouldn't want to have W to do it as she's breaking apart the family. You would want someone outside who isn't involved nor invested to help you broker the land sale."
I saw you posted afterward that "she'd be the most motivated realtor in the world." Like Matt wrote, you do what's best for you.
My question is, is this really best for you? I ask only because I think Wonka was spot on.
Well, Diff, I am sending hugs your way. Enjoy a glass or two of wine.
{{{{DifRent}}}}
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
