OM did email me early on, saying WAS knew all about his past and will know all about his future (blech! they're like high schoolers), how he wouldn't say bad things about me in front of kids (how kind!), why can't we all get along, etc. I wrote him back saying too late - was a part of causing too much damage to my family and I had no respect for him.

In unrelated question, a fun day is coming up - our anniversary! Is that day an opportunity for any DBing or just let it go?

Me44 WAW44
T22 M13
S10 S6
BD Aug 2014
PA Dec 2014;OM is divorcing,one D4, one S due Feb 2015 with Stbx wife
OM moves in with WAW Jan 2015
WAW file divorce Mar 2015
50/50 custody settled July 2015