Wonka, In regards to Cali's response, help me understand how that example would make a difference to STBX when they have not expressed interest in working on the MR. I imagine STBX would answer with "So what?"
I agree with you Defacto. Now would not be the time to play that card if she hasn't made any overtures of actually working things out.
However, Wonka has a point by posting this excerpt from Cali and that is that it perfectly encapsulates the attitude you should have about your marriage and relationships in general.
You're doing great.
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)
