Do not call your H, it seems to work better and he winds up calling you!
Also, the more things you figure out on your own, like what to do with the dog etc, the more it will impress your H.
I made it a point all last year to NOT ask my H anything, not ANYTHING, about my computer, even though it stopped working, needed major repairs and upgrades.
I went out, bought a book and some magazines, educated myself, asked the help of friends who were happy to oblige, and when H and I finally became friendly again, I could tell he was impressed!! When he challenged me about a couple of my choices, I was able to defend my decisions!
So stick to your RESOLVE!!!
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
