"Anyway I've asked for a week of no contact with me taking all responsibility for our son. It's going to be a good week but I'm not sure it's going to help her come around and see how foolish a decision this is."

Hi Mike, it would probably be a DB first if it did! NC is used more for your own sanity and wellbeing really. Very few WAS 'come around' at such an early stage in the sitch. It tends to take months, if not longer. So please don't have any expectations in this area. Do, however make the most of the peace of NC and take the time to regroup and give yourself a little TLC.

Hope it's a good week for you!

T :-)

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus