A few more exchanges and what it boils down to is she is a different person now and not the same person I married. We have no common interests and never did all of this is according to her. She changed for me when we got married apparently and now wants to be herself again. I don't get how this is all justified in her head?!?!
Anyway I've asked for a week of no contact with me taking all responsibility for our son. It's going to be a good week but I'm not sure it's going to help her come around and see how foolish a decision this is.