First post. Desperate for advice.

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She is very upset over the lengths that I went to in order to expose her conduct (I got pretty aggressive). She is angry that I involved members of her immediate family in an attempt to get through to her. She was aghast that I shared the details of her betrayal with these people. She calls all of this "controlling" and refuses to be controlled.

At what point did you expose her? Had you exposed before your first post or since you've been on the board?

It was a couple of days after I joined. I was in the midst of an emotional crisis. I was still pursuing like crazy and thought I needed allies. In my world, her family has become mine. I reached out to those closest to me for support and to ask "please speak to her. Make her see!". I think it may have lifted the fog. In the aftermath of that she is crushed by her perception that these people now think less of her.