Pushing on

[NDY]

Morning all.

So my SIL posted an article on emotional abuse in relationships and what that looks like. I'm following up on what toots said earlier and I'm beginning to realise many things.

WW was always in control of the finances.
WW decide on pretty much everything, house we bought, where we lived, holidays etc.
All of our bills are in her name.
As years went on it even became what I wore. Not just what I bought but actually when getting ready, say for a night out I would pick something out then she would critise it.

I didn't realise until now just how deep I allowed that to get. It all started to turn very controlling after S9 was born. Up to then our arrangements were team work.

Man, how did I let that happen?

So there is a list of 180's right there.