For me this is where the detachment is really difficult. It's hard not to think about the future but only the here and now. Sure, my WW has problems and I accept I'm not here to fix them. Let her get on with it but when there are kids involved you really can't just step all the way back.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.