Another sad thing is everything we do, makes our Spouses see it as control.

I love the analogy playing chess with 15 queens, if only I was excellent at playing chess. Putting in this context, I have a tiny chance of even check mating the king :-(

Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18
EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13
Move to work abroad Sept 14
re establish contact with OW while away
D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15