Matt777, you seem so strong, so organized in your head.....I certainly are making me get up in the morning....I can't seem to eat much without feeling sick but I do force myself,
Well it's nice that I come across that way anyway. I had a lot of trouble eating at first too, but it gets easier. Food starts to taste good eventually.
Originally Posted By: CindySy
I go to work but my summer vacations are coming and i have over 3 weeks---that scares me a lot. I am trying to plan things to do with my daughters during that time.
Good. Stay as busy as you can. With other people is good; with new people even better. But even if you're alone, doing new things is good too!
Originally Posted By: CindySy
When I read your signature you seem to have it all figured out and the dates seems not that far? What is your main focus (other then yourself)
Giving advice is easy. I can tell you what I think, but I don't actually have to do it! You can read my thread - I'm still a total mess myself. I understand the CONCEPTS; I know what I'm SUPPOSED to do. But I'm still having tons of trouble with myself in actually feeling my way through all of this.
But I'm focusing on being the best father, friend, and person I can be. I'm staying busy and keeping my mind occupied as much as possible. I'm proving to myself that I can live a happy life without my wife.
Originally Posted By: CindySy
also, should I let my H decide or bring the subject of a legal separation or divorce? Or should I bring it up or even move forward myself, eachtime with talk about it he seems to avoid the subject a little with we don't have the $ for that or you can look into it if you want but he has no concrete plans for any of it......there is no rush but I wasn't sure if it was a good idea to do nothing and just let him make the first move. Thanks again for your help Matt777
Do you want a divorce? If yes, go ahead and file. If no, then why would you help move it along?
