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Good to hear from you.


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Thanks Sandi! Hope you're well! Can't believe a year ago right now all this was all new to me. A year...WOW!


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14
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Thanks for updating ItHurts. I appreciate it and hope you continue to bump this every month or two until you are remarried or whatever. Take care!


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T:11 years M:8 years
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Hey Zues,
Thanks! Yes I try to keep everyone updated. Not too sure about us ever reconciling at this point though. Part of WAW's message last week said something like she's sorry that our marriage didn't work out like we hoped it would and it wasn't something she takes lightly but in hindsight I "think we both now know it was the right decision." Of course I didn't even address that part of her message during our correspondence, in fact nothing of our past relationship was discussed. However it sounds like she has no regrets...or maybe she said that and was feeling me out to see if I would say that I disgree with her still that it was the right decision...I don't know. Either way it wasn't addressed at all and really doesn't matter anyway. However I am losing hope of reconciliation ever happening now. Still, I will keep my story updated...I guess reality is you just never know what the future has in store. I just take it as it comes and roll with the punches these days...very thankful I am not where I was a year ago at this time.


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M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14
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Please start a new thread


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A new thread? Part VI you mean?


ME: 43 W:44
M 13 years on 5-5-01
T 18 years
BD 4/27/14
D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date)
WAW moved out 5/12/14
Papers filed 6/27/14
Divorce granted 07/17/14
Our marriage ends 11/17/14
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