My H called my D today and for the first time in 6 months told her to say hi to me. I would like to take that as a small sign of softening. I'm still having NC. I think he may have said it b/c tomorrow is my birthday.
Planning to have brunch with D and maybe some summer music outdoors with a good friend. Can't tell you how many b-days I have spent alone b/c of his job. It's really just another day. I should have no expectations.
