Matt777, you seem so strong, so organized in your head.....I certainly are making me get up in the morning....I can't seem to eat much without feeling sick but I do force myself, I go to work but my summer vacations are coming and i have over 3 weeks---that scares me a lot. I am trying to plan things to do with my daughters during that time. When I read your signature you seem to have it all figured out and the dates seems not that far? What is your main focus (other then yourself) also, should I let my H decide or bring the subject of a legal separation or divorce? Or should I bring it up or even move forward myself, eachtime with talk about it he seems to avoid the subject a little with we don't have the $ for that or you can look into it if you want but he has no concrete plans for any of it......there is no rush but I wasn't sure if it was a good idea to do nothing and just let him make the first move. Thanks again for your help Matt777
