I dropped off the kids at MIL's house.
STBX was still sleeping. As I was about to leave, MIL suggested that D4 show me her new move in the pool. I didn't want to miss that! We sat out on the patio for a few minutes while I watched D4 play in the pool. MIL went to get her swimsuit on and must of went in to wake up STBX.
She came out to the patio and asked if I still wanted to go to lunch. I said sure. MIL seemed to really make it a point for the kids to go along with us. It was probably better that way especially after the conversation this morning. And I thought that this may be the last time the kids will ever get to eat lunch with their parents together so I went along with it.

STBX wanted us to all drive together but I suggested separate cars. She seemed annoyed by that. Lunch was fine. STBX wasn't very talkative but I decided I would have fun and try to enjoy myself. By the end of lunch, she seemed a little more at ease. There was no R talk at all.

I walked the kids to her car and gave them smooches. STBX then walked up for a hug. I gave her a granny hug.
We said our goodbyes.

Side note: I did take a small amount of pleasure when looking into STBX's room at her parents house. Clothes, hangers, and stuffed animals were strewn everywhere. That must be so enjoyable to live in a tiny guestroom at your parents house.

Time to go out and GAL! Go Canes!


Me:35 W:30
D:4 S:1
Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA
In House Separation: 01/14/15
W moves out: 04/05/15
I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15
W serves D papers: 06/19/15
Mediation: 09/16/15
D final: 12/01/15