Start by detaching. Start by getting your own life. Start by identifying 180s and implementing them. Start by working on YOU. Don't worry about rebuilding right now.
Hi Last,
I'm very sorry to hear what you are going through. Ouch!
I love Matt's advice, especially what I quoted above. I hope you will follow his advice. It is so important, and yes, hard to do.
You CAN do this.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15