I think NDY just needs to protect himself. In the UK (Scotland) any type of 'abuse' claim is treated as being a good cause to prevent the sane spouse from seeing their children and Sheriff's will normally just accept that. Not point scoring, but a way of maintaining a sensible defence strategy if W goes legal.
^^this. He and painter are correct. I have no choice.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.