I think NDY just needs to protect himself. In the UK (Scotland) any type of 'abuse' claim is treated as being a good cause to prevent the sane spouse from seeing their children and Sheriff's will normally just accept that. Not point scoring, but a way of maintaining a sensible defence strategy if W goes legal.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015