Not responding well as in my actions make things worse instead of anything better. Difficult to explain as such other than whichever way I try to do NC etc. she pulls away and when I talk to her she pulls away.
Probably not explaining this very well!
I think I get what you're trying to say. I'm just having trouble understanding if that's true. The way I see the LRT, you aren't really "pulling away" it's more that you stop chasing. For example, if you're on a walk 3 steps behind your W, what happens if you stop walking? It will "appear" for a little while that she's getting further away, because she hasn't noticed you aren't following. But, the theory is that eventually she'll notice and start coming back towards you.
So I guess I'm trying to understand whether you reached that point in LRT or whether you just saw her getting farther away and started walking again.
