Ah, Cadet. Thank you for seeing the positive in my bitter anti-hope message. I figured DR was a little more positively rooted in save yourself, and trust the universe to either bring your spouse back to you or not.
My angle is currently 'save yourself, give up all wishful thinking and get through your grief like it's your job.' A little harsh for my new signature perhaps, lol.
Mid 30's Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH D 9/15; NC forever on
I figured DR was a little more positively rooted in save yourself, and trust the universe to either bring your spouse back to you or not. 
