The last few days I've been reading the infidelity section of DR. I'm paying particular attention to the segment on "if your spouse doesn't want to end the affair."

I know of no affair in my case, but I thought, what if I apply these ideas to my spouse's substance abuse issue? If I consider that he's having an affair with alcohol, could I better cope with it? Not sure, but it will be my new experiment.


M: 16y
3 adult kids, 2 young kids
H filed D May/15, no svc yet
Do I not destroy my enemies when I make them my friends? ~ Abe Lincoln
WAKE UP. WORK HARD. FORGIVE. REPEAT.